After completing my first Marian Consecration last year, I have been compelled to kneel and receive Holy Communion on the tongue. Thankfully, I am blessed with a priest who encourages it.
When visiting other churches and not confident that it will be allowed, I always bow, hold my hand like a throne (left hand under the right in the shape of a cross), and consume from my palms without ever touching with my fingers. Still, it feels very wrong.
The link below gives an excellent talk on the truth behind this change in practice. Would love to your thoughts?